I'd be most comfortable with #2-4. I would also attend a Charismatic or Reformed church, depending on how extreme they are in those beliefs. Like, I'm fine with hands in the air during worship and I endorse a continuationalist view of the Holy Spirit, but wouldn't agree with saying "if you're not speaking in tongues, then you don't have the Holy Spirit". Likewise, I'd be fine with a more Reformed church as long as they don't completely box in the Holy Spirit or de-emphasize the need to evangelize due to an extreme belief in Predestination.
I'm very comfortable at my non-denominational, theologically conservative, evangelical church.
*I'd actually be curious to visit a Messianic congregation, but I probably wouldn't go regularly because I might feel out of place as a Gentile.
Tbf Messianic Jews are also gentiles.