My "situation"

[phk]

She never bears off her arms, never any cleavage and only wears shorts or a skirt if the temperature is over 80F, which has been only once since this year started.

Say what?  You monitor the temperature and compare it with her dress, and you've only talked to her once?

Well, lets just say that my eyes wandered a little when I got a glimpse of her legs. The temperature doesn't' vary much in Sunny San Diego.

[Queen Mum Inks.LWC]

My advice to you - whatever you do, don't wait.  Because if you wait and lose the opportunity, you'll wonder forever what could have happened, and that, my friend is worse than being rejected.

[TeePee4Prez]

Be a jerk. Girls love guys who are assholes. Not only that, they like money. Flash some hundreds in her face and complain about how your trust fund is down. Girls like security. They want a guy who can provide for her and her future kids. Don't be a pussy and try to be nice and sit back and wait till the other asshole gets her. You'll be sitting at home alone on Friday while the jerk in the back is banging her.

Good luck!

This would be funny if it was actually meant to be such....

There's a big difference between being confident and being a jerk. Girls who like genuine jerks aren't worth having.

Well, obviously it all depends on the type of girl. My post was semi in jest, but a lot of girls I've been with in the past have been because of some of the things mentioned in my post. It depends on what type of girls you go for. I love the southern sorority/preppy types who wear pearl earrings and always call daddy each week and live to shop and do other silly girl things like that. They are drawn more to the jerk type of guys who look/dress like them. They tend to be prejudice against a lot of people. I don't know what the girl he's going after is like. Different things work with different girls. I tend to avoid the ones that like nice guys and want to talk about books and crap like that.

True.  No one woman is the same.  They're all weird.  That said I can't stand the sorority/preppy types whether it be a WASP blonde southern girl or some fat obnoxious JAP girl from Long Island (when I was at Lehigh).  Well... at least the southern blondes are attractive, but personality-wise I can stand them. 

Women are definitely drawn to the more jerkish types.  Confidence comes into play here.   

[TeePee4Prez]

HAHAHAHA

yeah Duke makes a good point. Describe her. How does she dress? it tells a lot about a girl.

Dress wise in terms of class she's actually surprisingly quite modest given how attractive I think she is.

She never bears off her arms, never any cleavage and only wears shorts or a skirt if the temperature is over 80F, which has been only once since this year started.

 In fact if she ever wears a sleeveless top she'll be sure to wear a sweater or something over it.

Than again this might mean she already has a boyfriend.

Say what? She doesn't dress to impress? Move along, my friend. There are greener pastures!

Seconded!

sh**t girls at Temple will start showing very soon.  Ahh, the days when I used to smoke and would stand outside a building and watch the flesh walk by.  Don't know if it helped if I smoked, but some hot women asked me for a light on occasion.

[opebo]

Dude, you live in San Diego?   Forget this girl and drive down to Tijuana.

[TeePee4Prez]

Dude, you live in San Diego?   Forget this girl and drive down to Tijuana.

How many "roses" does it cost down there?  Should he be "420 Friendly" as well?

[Swing low, sweet chariot. Comin' for to carry me home.]

WOW!...it's a wonder I was ever born!

reminds me of...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJnIWLTneKY

[phk]

I promise the entire world I will say hi to her next time I see her. She occupies a great amount of time in my mind when I'm not hanging out with friends or studying that I just want to put this to rest.

[phk]

Alright I'm screwed. All her friends know.

[Fmr. Pres. Duke]

Know what?!

[phk]

That I'm a coward.

[12th Doctor]

That I'm a coward.

How?

[Fmr. Pres. Duke]

How would her friends know you're a coward? I thought she hardly knew you? How do you know her friends?

[phk]

How would her friends know you're a coward? I thought she hardly knew you? How do you know her friends?

OK Here goes.

I tell one of my friends that I like her, and she tells a guy who knows her and he tells the rest of her friends.

If she confronts me. I will just say that somebody took a side comment of mine too far.

[Countess Anya of the North Parish]

How would her friends know you're a coward? I thought she hardly knew you? How do you know her friends?

OK Here goes.

I tell one of my friends that I like her, and she tells a guy who knows her and he tells the rest of her friends.

If she confronts me. I will just say that somebody took a side comment of mine too far.

no don't do that! just flow with it.

[Fmr. Pres. Duke]

Yeah. Say something witty and unexpected if she confronts you. Or, tell her something that will make her feel good about herself, especially if she isn't attractive. She probably has never heard that before!

Don't tuck your tail and run. If I know anything, it's how to say too much, but in this case it's better that you say too much than embarrass yourself by clamming up. Then, you'll have no chance!

[Countess Anya of the North Parish]

it is better to say to much then nothing at all.

[Queen Mum Inks.LWC]

How would her friends know you're a coward? I thought she hardly knew you? How do you know her friends?

OK Here goes.

I tell one of my friends that I like her, and she tells a guy who knows her and he tells the rest of her friends.

If she confronts me. I will just say that somebody took a side comment of mine too far.

Don't do that.  Go with it.  This is God's/fate's/destiny's way of pushing you along.

[opebo]

Dude, you live in San Diego?   Forget this girl and drive down to Tijuana.

How many "roses" does it cost down there?  Should he be "420 Friendly" as well?

I think last I heard it was about $50 for good quality.  I don't really know anything about the marijuana.

[phk]

Thing is that. I don't want to be labeled a stalker and this is where it looks like its going. Granted her friends knowing kind of make me want to find her and just talk to her to make them seem irrelevant.

I will attempt to talk to her tommorow.

After that theres plenty of fish in the sea that are awaiting me.

[opebo]

...After that theres plenty of fish in the sea that are awaiting me.

Well, there are plenty of women out there, but its a little overly optimistic to think that any of them are 'awaiting' you.

Fact is I'd say a good 20% of guys basically almost never get laid.

[phk]

Situation is getting awkward and tommorow I'm gonna try and talk to her.

[phk]

Alright thanks for your help guys. But I officially give up. Sorry for wasting your time. 

[Countess Anya of the North Parish]

Alright thanks for your help guys. But I officially give up. Sorry for wasting your time. 

what happened?

[phk]

Alright thanks for your help guys. But I officially give up. Sorry for wasting your time. 

what happened?

Nothing.

I dropped this whole idea because I look like a stalker now and I may never see her again anyway.