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« on: December 08, 2008, 05:08:09 PM »
Over the weekend I was spending a lot the weekend with my best friend Ty. We went up to his cabin about an hour and a half away. We went skiing, snowmobiling and just hung out. It was a bunch of fun.

Anyway, Ty is gay (closeted though - he's only told me and and a couple of his other friends.) I held the same confidence in him. On Saturday evening I ended up telling him I was Bisexual. He's the first and only person I've told to date, in person. He was totally O.K. with it but surprised, I guess he'd never had the thought cross his mind I might be anything but straight.

This weekend was one of the best in my life. I feel like a big weight has been lifted off my shoulders... at least somewhat. Also, if you have read the "Keystone Phil vs. MSUfan" thread, you'll see that my sexual interaction isn't 100% female anymore. The 10% happened this weekend. O.K., that was probably unnecessary but I'm just so happy...

Sorry for cluttering the thread with more attention whoring but... yeah, you know.
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« Reply #1 on: December 08, 2008, 05:17:12 PM »
Congratulations.
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« Reply #2 on: December 08, 2008, 05:17:49 PM »
Did you have fun having sex?
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« Reply #3 on: December 08, 2008, 05:22:28 PM »
Four years ago I would have been turning this into a Goldmine...but now...I'm too old.
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« Reply #4 on: December 08, 2008, 05:23:34 PM »
This is great news! It's good you have your best friend to talk about things with. I know my best friend and I love to talk about Miley Cyrus, and it's never weird or anything either.
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« Reply #5 on: December 08, 2008, 05:59:08 PM »
Hmmm. I still have my little theory about this all. Tongue
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« Reply #6 on: December 08, 2008, 06:00:37 PM »
I wonder how your football team would react...
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« Reply #7 on: December 08, 2008, 06:06:33 PM »
Congrats on a first step!  My younger brother came out to me last weekend, making me the first family member he told. I already knew but I still tried to make him feel good about it.
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« Reply #8 on: December 08, 2008, 06:19:42 PM »
Good news!

And congratulations to Becca's little brother Smiley
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« Reply #9 on: December 08, 2008, 06:25:25 PM »
Quote from: MSUfan on December 08, 2008, 05:08:09 PM
Over the weekend I was spending a lot the weekend with my best friend Ty. We went up to his cabin about an hour and a half away. We went skiing, snowmobiling and just hung out. It was a bunch of fun.

Anyway, Ty is gay (closeted though - he's only told me and and a couple of his other friends.) I held the same confidence in him. On Saturday evening I ended up telling him I was Bisexual. He's the first and only person I've told to date, in person. He was totally O.K. with it but surprised, I guess he'd never had the thought cross his mind I might be anything but straight.

This weekend was one of the best in my life. I feel like a big weight has been lifted off my shoulders... at least somewhat. Also, if you have read the "Keystone Phil vs. MSUfan" thread, you'll see that my sexual interaction isn't 100% female anymore. The 10% happened this weekend. O.K., that was probably unnecessary but I'm just so happy...

Sorry for cluttering the thread with more attention whoring but... yeah, you know.

admitting you have a problem is the first step to finding a solution
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« Reply #10 on: December 08, 2008, 06:27:34 PM »
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« Reply #11 on: December 08, 2008, 06:28:34 PM »
Rock on, dude! Good for you. I hope everything keeps on going so well. Smiley
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« Reply #12 on: December 08, 2008, 06:32:37 PM »
Good for you MSU! I had no idea you were Bi! I thought I was the only bi guy here (besides AKsaber.) Hopefully, now you will have more confidence to come to everyone else you know.
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« Reply #13 on: December 08, 2008, 06:34:45 PM »
Quote from: RosettaStoned on December 08, 2008, 06:32:37 PM
Good for you MSU! I had no idea you were Bi! I thought I was the only bi guy here (besides AKsaber.) Hopefully, now you will have more confidence to come to everyone else you know.

Mint/NDN is Bisexual as well.
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« Reply #14 on: December 08, 2008, 06:35:05 PM »
Quote from: jmfcst on December 08, 2008, 06:25:25 PM
admitting you have a problem is the first step to finding a solution

cute.
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« Reply #15 on: December 08, 2008, 06:43:38 PM »
For some reason like half my friends here at MSU are LGBT (in fact, at least one of each, though one double-counts for G and T Tongue), and they seem to be finding plenty of resources if they need any.  Each group of residence halls has its own LGBT group, but you can go to any you want Smiley
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« Reply #16 on: December 08, 2008, 06:44:46 PM »
Quote from: afleitch on December 08, 2008, 06:35:05 PM
Quote from: jmfcst on December 08, 2008, 06:25:25 PM
admitting you have a problem is the first step to finding a solution

cute.
Its times like this that I think Im falling in love with the ignore button. Smiley
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« Reply #17 on: December 08, 2008, 06:45:18 PM »
Quote from: ilikeverin on December 08, 2008, 06:43:38 PM
For some reason like half my friends here at MSU are LGBT (in fact, at least one of each, though one double-counts for G and T Tongue), and they seem to be finding plenty of resources if they need any.  Each group of residence halls has its own LGBT group, but you can go to any you want Smiley

Really? We don't even have a LGBT group on campus.
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« Reply #18 on: December 08, 2008, 06:46:57 PM »
Quote from: Governor Duke, Dirty South on December 08, 2008, 06:45:18 PM
Quote from: ilikeverin on December 08, 2008, 06:43:38 PM
For some reason like half my friends here at MSU are LGBT (in fact, at least one of each, though one double-counts for G and T Tongue), and they seem to be finding plenty of resources if they need any.  Each group of residence halls has its own LGBT group, but you can go to any you want Smiley

Really? We don't even have a LGBT group on campus.

Yeah, there are like... 5...

Maybe MSU is particularly tolerant :?
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« Reply #19 on: December 08, 2008, 06:55:27 PM »
Congrats.. that definitely took some guts.

I imagine it's pretty hard to tell anybody, even somebody you know will be totally accepting and even honored to know, something that you've kept as such a secret for so long.
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« Reply #20 on: December 08, 2008, 06:56:20 PM »
Congrats.
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« Reply #21 on: December 08, 2008, 07:05:24 PM »
Quote from: fezzyfestoon on December 08, 2008, 06:46:28 PM
Quote from: Governor Duke, Dirty South on December 08, 2008, 06:45:18 PM
Quote from: ilikeverin on December 08, 2008, 06:43:38 PM

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For some reason like half my friends here at MSU are LGBT (in fact, at least one of each, though one double-counts for G and T Tongue), and they seem to be finding plenty of resources if they need any.  Each group of residence halls has its own LGBT group, but you can go to any you want Smiley
Really? We don't even have a LGBT group on campus.

I don't think we do either, actually.

Wow.. my university was only 3800 students and we had a sizable group... it must be because I'm up here in 'liberal' Minnesota
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« Reply #22 on: December 08, 2008, 08:28:23 PM »

Oh well. I guess I deserved that for not being able to keep my mouth shut about anything.
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« Reply #23 on: December 08, 2008, 08:32:16 PM »
You should read the bible a little more.
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« Reply #24 on: December 08, 2008, 08:39:22 PM »
Quote from: Spiro Agnew II on December 08, 2008, 08:32:16 PM
You should read the bible a little more.

Each time I wrote a response to this it was vulgar..
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