Update Season X - "It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas Vol. I."

[Lief 🗽]

Jeff, speaking as a friend, it is extremely weird and a bit disturbing that you made a picture of Allison your profile picture.

so much this

[Hatman 🍁]

I came here to ask the same question.

Judging from both of their facebook pages, it's clear who is more interested in who. 

*Allison posted a picture of the both of them with the word "friendship" below. Only friends?
*Bushie mentioned 'love' in his fb status, nothing like that from her
*Changing his picture to a picture of her. She has not done the same.

These are just a few signs of who is more interested than the other. This is a bad sign, folks.

[Joe Biden 2020]

I came here to ask the same question.

Judging from both of their facebook pages, it's clear who is more interested in who. 

*Allison posted a picture of the both of them with the word "friendship" below. Only friends?
*Bushie mentioned 'love' in his fb status, nothing like that from her
*Changing his picture to a picture of her. She has not done the same.

These are just a few signs of who is more interested than the other. This is a bad sign, folks.

She was the one who officially changed the relationship status to "In a relationship", I just confirmed it when I got home last evening.

She has been calling me pet names (babe, for instance) and telling me she loves  me over text and phone and now face to face.

She's been at church all evening.  I overslept it this evening, so I have had time to change mine.

There is no bad sign anywhere except those you and the forum want to make up.

[Joe Biden 2020]

She made that photo stitch before our date yesterday as she gave me a card to take home last night and read after I got home that had two of the same pictures in it.  She seems happy to me.  My goal is to make her comfortable.

[Hatman 🍁]

I don't doubt she likes you, Bushie (in fact, she clearly likes you more than most women would like a guy after one date)- it's just obvious from facebook that you're more into this than her. 

[patrick1]

The behavior on both sides make absolutely no sense to me, but who am I to judge? Best of luck, I hope you find some happiness.

[Joe Biden 2020]

I don't doubt she likes you, Bushie (in fact, she clearly likes you more than most women would like a guy after one date)- it's just obvious from facebook that you're more into this than her.  

That may be true, but I don't think that's a bad sign.  We are two different people.  We will likely get comfortable at different times.  I reiterate my goal of trying to make her comfortable.  Plus, everyone here as well as my FB friends can attest to the fact that I share a lot more on FB than most other people.  I know what she has told me verbally and in private and I like what I'm hearing.  Plus, if you were to listen to our conversation the night before the first date, you would think we had been on five or six dates...

[AndrewTX]

Jeff, speaking as a friend, it is extremely weird and a bit disturbing that you made a picture of Allison your profile picture.

That is totes cray! I don't even have my GF on mine..

[Joe Biden 2020]

She is still getting comfortable, just making sure she doesn't get hurt again.  Same with me, really.  She is determined, though, to make this work.  I told her it would be at least next Spring before we take things to the next level.  I need a job first.  She likes that plan.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Jeff, speaking as a friend, it is extremely weird and a bit disturbing that you made a picture of Allison your profile picture.

so much this

SOOOOOO Much this.

[Snowstalker Mk. II]

Based on your new profile pic, congrats on the sex change!

[Fmr. Pres. Duke]

All of this is wonderful. The Update is back.

I am worried this girl seems to be less into this than Bushie, but we all know we can't stop this train. It sounds like she's fresh out of a relationship and doesn't want anything, but Bushie is ready for marriage.

[Mr. Morden]

I am worried this girl seems to be less into this than Bushie, but we all know we can't stop this train. It sounds like she's fresh out of a relationship and doesn't want anything, but Bushie is ready for marriage.

Yet she apparently has repeatedly said that she loves him (even before the first date), and said that they're in a relationship (before the first date).  She seems to be going too fast, but Bushie is going even faster.  However eager she is, Bushie will most likely one up her in eagerness, no matter what she does.  So there's nothing really unexpected here, is there?

[Fmr. Pres. Duke]

I am worried this girl seems to be less into this than Bushie, but we all know we can't stop this train. It sounds like she's fresh out of a relationship and doesn't want anything, but Bushie is ready for marriage.

Yet she apparently has repeatedly said that she loves him (even before the first date), and said that they're in a relationship (before the first date).  She seems to be going too fast, but Bushie is going even faster.  However eager she is, Bushie will most likely one up her in eagerness, no matter what she does.  So there's nothing really unexpected here, is there?

No. This is all going to plan. I love every bit of it.

[Grumpier Than Uncle Joe]

Bushie change your profile pick back to you and the kids.  It's too creepy now.

[tmthforu94]

He changed it 3 minutes ago. Good decision!

[© tweed]

Jeff, speaking as a friend, it is extremely weird and a bit disturbing that you made a picture of Allison your profile picture.

so much this

lmao.  honestly in the height of my number of female-obsessions the thought of doing something like this was never even a possibility -- even when running through the internal list of things not to do.

Bushie's cover photo remains the mash-up Allison appears to have made of he and Allison, with the 'Friendship' (is he getting friend-zoned?) cut out.

[WalterMitty]

This woman will be asking for more space soon.

[Queen Mum Inks.LWC]

Inks, isn't posting a direct quote from someone else's private Facebook account something that the FC moderators have told people not to do in the past?

Yes he is and he deserves 10 points for minimum

That's awfully hypocritical of you...

The conversations between us stay between us.

We were too busy taking a tour of Stillwater, OK and talking about our respective churches.  We talked about the Oklahoma State game (which was a loss), and talked about our alma maters (hers; Oklahoma State and mine Northwestern Oklahoma State which are not affiliated).

Priceless Update gold.

lol

Bushie, is Allison "The One"?

I believe she is!  Time will be the judge, though.

But he's not thinking about engagement!

[Queen Mum Inks.LWC]

Yes, we have.  We did it at the same time in her car right before I left to come home.

Isn't that a little risqué for the forum?

Jeff, speaking as a friend, it is extremely weird and a bit disturbing that you made a picture of Allison your profile picture.

That is totes cray! I don't even have my GF on mine..

Yeah... I think this was the first time I've had a picture of me and my gf as my profile picture, and we've been dating for over two years.  At some point, I'll probably switch it back to my true love... Secretary Hagel.

[Queen Mum Inks.LWC]

I am worried this girl seems to be less into this than Bushie, but we all know we can't stop this train. It sounds like she's fresh out of a relationship and doesn't want anything, but Bushie is ready for marriage.

Yet she apparently has repeatedly said that she loves him (even before the first date), and said that they're in a relationship (before the first date).  She seems to be going too fast, but Bushie is going even faster.  However eager she is, Bushie will most likely one up her in eagerness, no matter what she does.  So there's nothing really unexpected here, is there?

I think this is what's expected...

[Lief 🗽]

wow in the course of about an hour, Bushie has transformed from a middle-aged white man into a middle-aged white woman into a young African child

[King]

I like the dual mugshots cover photo.  You too need to go somewhere and take a picture together ASAP.

I would say go into one of those booths at the mall, but I doubt you would both fit in there.

[Joe Biden 2020]

Yes, we have.  We did it at the same time in her car right before I left to come home.

Isn't that a little risqué for the forum?

What? Updating our Facebook together?  (I know what you were getting at, though...)

[King]

wow in the course of about an hour, Bushie has transformed from a middle-aged white man into a middle-aged white woman into a young African child