The Confession Booth: Post something very personal about yourself

[afleitch]

I received a handful of private messages from some of YOU who wanted to hook up with me. I will not name names, but one of the more brazen posters actually requested that I meet him in a hotel room and he promised me alcohol.

Jeez...

[Torie]

So it's now established that Tik is male   ... ?

Actually don't go there Torie. Just stop. Anyway, and here I thought almost everyone on the site was either gay or shy or uninterested. Who knew?

Sorry you had a bad experience Tik.

[This user has not been convicted of 34 felonies]

I received a handful of private messages from some of YOU who wanted to hook up with me. I will not name names, but one of the more brazen posters actually requested that I meet him in a hotel room and he promised me alcohol.

Jeez...

Jeez indeed holy crap

[Snowstalker Mk. II]

Gee, why do women not post here again?

[Kitteh]

Even more depressing than what Tik said is the fact that I am not surprised by it in the least.

Gee, why do women not post here again?

I don't mean to sound smarmy, but you're really not someone who should be getting on a high horse about this.

[minionofmidas]

That said, when there was debate concerning my gender and certain posters were assuming that I was female in anatomy, I received a handful of private messages from some of YOU who wanted to hook up with me. I will not name names, but one of the more brazen posters actually requested that I meet him in a hotel room and he promised me alcohol.

How old did you claim to be at the time? (Just asking out of interest and because of the strange "promised me alcohol" bit.)

[tik 🪀✨]

That said, when there was debate concerning my gender and certain posters were assuming that I was female in anatomy, I received a handful of private messages from some of YOU who wanted to hook up with me. I will not name names, but one of the more brazen posters actually requested that I meet him in a hotel room and he promised me alcohol.

How old did you claim to be at the time? (Just asking out of interest and because of the strange "promised me alcohol" bit.)

At that time I was over 21 and I don't think I lied about that, but I don't remember exactly. His request wasn't illegal, just really really creepy.

[memphis]

That said, when there was debate concerning my gender and certain posters were assuming that I was female in anatomy, I received a handful of private messages from some of YOU who wanted to hook up with me. I will not name names, but one of the more brazen posters actually requested that I meet him in a hotel room and he promised me alcohol.

How old did you claim to be at the time? (Just asking out of interest and because of the strange "promised me alcohol" bit.)

At that time I was over 21 and I don't think I lied about that, but I don't remember exactly. His request wasn't illegal, just really really creepy.

Sometimes people are bad at the courtship thing. It goes both ways. No need to make yourself into a victim. I once had a coworker corner me and start rubbing her butt all over me. Take it as a compliment and move on. No need to get your panties all wadded. There are people with real problems out there.

[Atlas Has Shrugged]

Unless it was one of our Australian posters, I kinda doubt that an American or European would be so desperate as to travel to the other side of the world for sex, no offense intended. I think it was more of an awful attempt at a joke.

[fezzyfestoon]

It's 4/20 and I only just smoked now. It's a point of personal humiliation. Take that for what it's worth...

[tik 🪀✨]

That said, when there was debate concerning my gender and certain posters were assuming that I was female in anatomy, I received a handful of private messages from some of YOU who wanted to hook up with me. I will not name names, but one of the more brazen posters actually requested that I meet him in a hotel room and he promised me alcohol.

How old did you claim to be at the time? (Just asking out of interest and because of the strange "promised me alcohol" bit.)

At that time I was over 21 and I don't think I lied about that, but I don't remember exactly. His request wasn't illegal, just really really creepy.

Sometimes people are bad at the courtship thing. It goes both ways. No need to make yourself into a victim. I once had a coworker corner me and start rubbing her butt all over me. Take it as a compliment and move on. No need to get your panties all wadded. There are people with real problems out there.

I never asked for sympathy, nor did I say that I was distraught. I was simply sharing an experience. Nevertheless your lack of insight into gender dynamics and casual attitude towards women being lured towards sex constantly has been noted.

[Okay, maybe Mike Johnson is a competent parliamentarian.]

There are people with real problems out there.

Yeah, like getting pressured into or victimized during sex, or having to interact with people who make it clear that they want to pressure or victimize.

[memphis]

There are people with real problems out there.

Yeah, like getting pressured into or victimized during sex, or having to interact with people who make it clear that they want to pressure or victimize.

Being hit on is not a problem. The lack thereof is a much more trying experience. What's so awful about saying No, thank you if you don't feel the same way?

[ilikeverin]

There are people with real problems out there.

Yeah, like getting pressured into or victimized during sex, or having to interact with people who make it clear that they want to pressure or victimize.

Being hit on is not a problem. The lack thereof is a much more trying experience. What's so awful about saying No, thank you if you don't feel the same way?

...some days I think you are why evolutionary psychologists can't have good things

[Okay, maybe Mike Johnson is a competent parliamentarian.]

There are people with real problems out there.

Yeah, like getting pressured into or victimized during sex, or having to interact with people who make it clear that they want to pressure or victimize.

Being hit on is not a problem. The lack thereof is a much more trying experience.

Believe it or not, this is not the case for all people in all times and places. Some people, especially those whom our society holds in contempt and traumatizes for having the temerity to be female, want to be left more or less alone, or better yet, paid some degree of meaningful love and/or respect by those around them.

[Kitteh]

There are people with real problems out there.

Yeah, like getting pressured into or victimized during sex, or having to interact with people who make it clear that they want to pressure or victimize.

Being hit on is not a problem. The lack thereof is a much more trying experience. What's so awful about saying No, thank you if you don't feel the same way?

I honestly have never met someone IRL with so little capacity to empathize with others as you are showing here. I don't mean empathize in some romantic, "everyone love each other and flowers and WORLD PEACE YAY!!!11!" sort of way. I mean the basic human ability to at least somewhat understand the experiences of another person, which I am (or was) very confident every human being over the age of 3 posessed.

[Fmr. Pres. Duke]

This thread has also taken a turn for the worse. Not everyone finds advances towards them OK, even if they aren't used to getting attention. Get it together, people.

[Antonio the Sixth]

I received a handful of private messages from some of YOU who wanted to hook up with me. I will not name names, but one of the more brazen posters actually requested that I meet him in a hotel room and he promised me alcohol.

Jeez...

Yeah, wow. This place gets more disgusting every day.

[Antonio the Sixth]

That said, when there was debate concerning my gender and certain posters were assuming that I was female in anatomy, I received a handful of private messages from some of YOU who wanted to hook up with me. I will not name names, but one of the more brazen posters actually requested that I meet him in a hotel room and he promised me alcohol.

How old did you claim to be at the time? (Just asking out of interest and because of the strange "promised me alcohol" bit.)

At that time I was over 21 and I don't think I lied about that, but I don't remember exactly. His request wasn't illegal, just really really creepy.

Sometimes people are bad at the courtship thing. It goes both ways. No need to make yourself into a victim. I once had a coworker corner me and start rubbing her butt all over me. Take it as a compliment and move on. No need to get your panties all wadded. There are people with real problems out there.

What the hell is wrong with you?!?

[MASHED POTATOES. VOTE!]

This thread is on life support.

[memphis]

Again, what is so terrible about saying No thank you, I'm not interested? If some of you have had some sort of sexual abuse in the past, that's terrible, but it's not the fault of every person who pays you a compliment. I once even had a guy try to come on to me. He wasn't my type but it wasn't the worst thing to ever happen to me either. It wasn't a statement of contempt or a trauma. I hope you guys can have some positive sexual experiences in the future, but with your attitudes, I don't see how.

[Starbucks Union Thug HokeyPuck]

Again, what is so terrible about saying No thank you, I'm not interested? If some of you have had some sort of sexual abuse in the past, that's terrible, but it's not the fault of every person who pays you a compliment. I once even had a guy try to come on to me. He wasn't my type but it wasn't the worst thing to ever happen to me either. It wasn't a statement of contempt or a trauma. I hope you guys can have some positive sexual experiences in the future, but with your attitudes, I don't see how.

Whatever role you are trying to play in these gender arguments, Memphis... don't stop.  I'm not even going to present an opinion on your views, you're very entertaining, though. 

Personal:  Hmmm... I'm really, really into the girl I'm taking out Wednesday... perhaps far more than I should be.  Whatevs.  Roll Tide. 

[All Along The Watchtower]

Again, what is so terrible about saying No thank you, I'm not interested? If some of you have had some sort of sexual abuse in the past, that's terrible, but it's not the fault of every person who pays you a compliment. I once even had a guy try to come on to me. He wasn't my type but it wasn't the worst thing to ever happen to me either. It wasn't a statement of contempt or a trauma. I hope you guys can have some positive sexual experiences in the future, but with your attitudes, I don't see how.

.........

[traininthedistance]

Again, what is so terrible about saying No thank you, I'm not interested? If some of you have had some sort of sexual abuse in the past, that's terrible, but it's not the fault of every person who pays you a compliment. I once even had a guy try to come on to me. He wasn't my type but it wasn't the worst thing to ever happen to me either. It wasn't a statement of contempt or a trauma. I hope you guys can have some positive sexual experiences in the future, but with your attitudes, I don't see how.

WTF.  You just have to keep digging, don't you.

The only rule is no judging people negatively by what they post; this is a judgement-free zone.

Screw that sh[inks], I'm judging Memphis and I am judging him quite negatively by what he's posted in this thread.

[Kitteh]

The only rule is no judging people negatively by what they post; this is a judgement-free zone.

Screw that sh[inks], I'm judging Memphis and I am judging him quite negatively by what he's posted in this thread.

It's okay, that only applies to posts that actually fit the topic of this thread.


Anyway, to steer this thread back to the original point; the first person I ever thought about while masturbating was Vanessa Hudgens. 12-year-old me had a crush on her after High School Musical