Like most, I also think DOMA is going to fall. I'm not sure that there will be a majority on any particular line of reasoning, though there is a limited possibility a majority strikes it down on equal protection grounds. Justice Kennedy could limit it to DOMA and let a lower court ruling on Prop 8 stand. That could delay by a couple years any SCOTUS decision on gay marriage as the issue would have to start from the beginning at the district court level (with a state or states without California's unique situation).
After listening to the oral arguments in both cases, I think it's extremely unlikely the Court rules anything other than options 4 or 5 (the former being much more likely than the latter). Therefore, my vote goes to option 4. I believe Prop 8 will soon be completely unenforceable, whether it happens on the merits or the standing issue. And, as I said above, Section 3 of DOMA looks to be dead as well.
One thing I did notice was this brief insight in Justice Kennedy's thinking:
It's not a line of reasoning that has really got much attention at all, but it would raise the standard of review to intermediate scrutiny. There's no way a gay marriage ban would survive that standard.