No, like most nerds I fixed that in college.
Well, I consider myself a nerd, too 
Yeah, I can testify that not all nerds were that lucky...
I thought you were still in college? When I say "in college" I didn't mean freshman year, FYI.
But in any case, nothing is guaranteed (and of course many folks prefer to stay virgins by choice and that's their right), and there is plenty of time left for you and everyone else in that boat.
I will come out and say, more for the benefit of the assorted peanut gallery, that during HS and early on in college I was in fact one of those self-identified bitter "nice guys". Then, one day, I decided to drop that act (with admittedly some encouragement), and be a
good guy instead. In my case, this didn't actually mean that I was any more forward (I couldn't do that if I tried), just that I stopped whining and focused on making friendships and valuing people
as people rather than just means to an end. I don't think it's any coincidence that things got better after that (I don't mean uninterrupted success or anything, there have of course been dry spells and such, happens to everyone).
My hostility to the "Nice Guy"/MRA pathologies really is a case of "there but for the grace of God go I"/ the zeal of someone who was saved from that mode of thinking.
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