I had two great grandfather's who fought in that war, one on each side (the one who fought on the Union side taking two bullets, which he carried to his grave some 70 years later). Obviously where I lived would have a big impact, but I would like to believe that if I lived in the South, I would have had enough good conscience, and character, to have fled and taken up arms against it. Its enterprise and objects were truly evil in every respect.
If you truly had felt that strongly about slavery, you probably would have left the South well before the war.