Are you VERY excited for 4 more years of a Barack Obama presidency?

[True Federalist (진정한 연방 주의자)]

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5. Very excited. An Obama presidency will help me and my husband a great deal.

Not really.  The only way DOMA is likely to be tossed in the next four years is if the Supreme Court strikes it down and I don't see this court doing that.  There will almost certainly be increasing acceptance of gay marriage at the State level, but the provisions in US immigration law that affect you two are going to remain in place at least two more years and likely longer.