It sounds more like you have a personal vendetta here and blame the feminist movement for the actions of women you do not like.
There are plenty of viable feminist outfits. I know this because I know many people who run them. If you are going to tell me that people who I am friends with and I know well are secretly hateful of males, well, I have some trouble believing that.
No offense at all, but it seems like you are someone paranoid and are blaming any actions individual women may have taken that end up hurting you on the feminist movement.
I don't hate men i even married one.