There's really no need for this kind of thing in the computer age. Why not just use Craigslist
Thats true, there really isn't. Most gay men are using manhunt.net or gay.com.
Is it OK if gays merely make out in a park, but eschew visible genital contact? Would that not also not be caring enough "for the children." Just asking.
Oh come on, we have gay men making out on prime time TV shows now (see Desperate Housewives and Brothers & Sisters), something that would have been unheard of 15 years ago.
For the record, I don't condone sex in public, and have never done it. I have used the web sites I mentioned, though.