I thought you were still in college? When I say "in college" I didn't mean freshman year, FYI. But in any case, nothing is guaranteed (and of course many folks prefer to stay virgins by choice and that's their right), and there is plenty of time left for you and everyone else in that boat. If by College you mean undergraduate, nope. I'm about to finish my Master's actually.
But regardless, to be honest this doesn't really bother me. It doesn't really make me sad, actually I only rarely think about it. I guess that's partly because most other aspects of my life so far are going as well as I feel they possibly could (and have been steadily improving for the past 8 years or so). And also because I know part of the reason things are as they are is due to my personal ethic and lifestyle choices, which I'm not willing to renounce. So, it OK I guess, taking it easy. The only feeling I have is the worry that some day I will feel really lonely and it will be too late. But it still looks like a distant future to me.
I'm proud to say I never fell into the "nice guy" trap. I've always prided myself in having very good girl friends and seeing girls as people. Again, part is due to me being me (Aspergers obviously playing a good role). For example, the notion of flirting is utterly alien to me. But I'm also glad that I had the chance of being exposed to, and actively seeking out, feminist theory, which, among other things, allowed me to preemptively reject any attitude that would denote male entitlement. So I think I'm doing OK.
So that was my own Simfan moment, hope you guys enjoyed it.