But your name came from your father presumably, itself an indication of inequality. Ditto for your presumtive wife. Therefore, you hyphenated name is already a symbol of male dominance over females, by your thinking.
It's not ideal but it's a step in the right direction.
And in order to eradicate this male dominance, the length of everybody's last name will double each generation. Yet you offer no solution to this problem. Maybe you need to rethink your theory.
There are other ways to solve this problem without hypenating everybody's name. Each couple could choose whether to name the kids the mother's name or the father's name using criteria such as:
- combining or contracting names
- using the more ethnic name
- using the name of the parent who has fewer relatives with that name
- with two children naming one the mother's and one the father's