And I know quite a couple of people like quite the girl really. (Well except Straightedge and Jmfcst-esque. I have never heard of anyone who was actually straightedge; it is mainly used as the butt of jokes.)
You know scene girls?
Define "scene". No matter how much times you have used it, I still don't know what it is.
I do know (vaguely mostly) many bohemian types though.
It was kind of like the personality you were described. Opebo could still be opebo without being a sex tourist; he wouldn't do the same things but would still be the same person with the same personality.
Of course I might be imagining this girl completely wrong. It is the Internets after all.