I made my recommendation to Nym. I made a judgment, given all the facts and circumstances, including a host of private PM's with barfbag. I still have some hope that after a cooling off period, he will more clearly get "the message." He's not a bad sort really, and some of it all I don't fully understand for sure. I just have surmises. Tough and sad case for me. It really was. And I regret that I was so ineffectual. I did my best in my mind. That is all I can do.
That's cute that you're still calling your Final Decisions "recommendations".