Update

[CubOB]

You got her pregnant? You had sex before marriage, likely unprotected sex at that, getting a woman up the duff but prior to finding this out bullsh-t on the forum about 'God meaning this to be' and all that sanctimonious drivvel and now want to bring the marriage forward to cover up your indiscretion?

Or she's lying.

Yep, and you gays are ruining that institution we all respect so much.

[CubOB]

Also, does this mean that BushOK is definitely gonna be going 'downstairs' now? I'm a bit unclear on how bad a sin premarital sex is meant to be :/

[CubOB]

Another theological question - does getting married before the bride gives birth make things better in the eyes of God?

[CubOB]

You seem to have reason to believe this woman is carrying your child, you both apparently care for each other a great deal, but you're apparently allowing her to avoid you for as long as she wants rather than getting in touch to have what will probably be quite an important conversation. Why are you doing this again?

[CubOB]

Also, how come your indiscretions are on the level of a "little white lie" but other peoples' sins are surely an abomination? I heard somewhere that all sin is equal...is that not right? I'm getting a bit confused, I might be mixing stuff up from different denominations? :s

[CubOB]

You still deserve answers from her now.

[CubOB]

How can you absolve yourself of sin if you don't confess it? I'm guessing you're not a Catholic so there'd be no 'formal' need to confess, but it's still something that may hang heavy on you over time.

[CubOB]

Thanks for the clarification regarding confession, guys