Option 4. This is a major reason why I'll never be Catholic. People are of equal worth; I'm aware of the "equal but different" argument, but you can't have equality with the "head and helper" nonsense.
It does seem, however, that Catholics are generally more sensible than evangelicals. Many individual Catholics are not that enthusiastic about complimentarianism. Nonetheless, it doesn't look like the church is budging. Maybe the egalitarian-minded Catholics should just become Episcopalian, or maybe Lutheran.
