I miss the era where a woman could be masculine and a man feminine without being considered trans. "Gender is a social construct" and all that, remember? That was less than a decade ago. I will never understand why the left became even more rigid on gender roles than the right, but in a different way.
They still can be. Femininity and Masculinity are different from your gender identity. I wear nail polish and like brightly colored clothes yet nobody has ever tried to convince me I must actually be a woman. There's also transwoman that are tomboyish and transmen that are feminine. This argument seems like a red herring.