Wow, it's almost like I care more about my political values being represented than making sure the guy from "my team" gets elected.
Exactly
It's sad to see politics devolve into a full fledge spectator sport where all people care about is their team winning and nothing else. I think this might be a big contributor to hyperpolarisation.
I frankly don't care if my congressman, my governor, or the President is of the opposite party. I don't owe the Democratic Party anything, and if the party doesn't share my values and political ideals then I will gladly leave it. If the progressives are booted out in favor of DLC technocrats, then it's clear that the Democratic Party isn't for me anymore.
To be quite honest, the Democratic Party has devolved into a bitter mess between stale, smug neoliberals and agitated, "do something right this second" populists.
It reminds me of the GOP circa. 2009, and I don't very much find them appealing as an Independent. I will vote for the occasional Democrat (such as in 2020 very likely), but I don't expect to see myself switching to being a Democrat anytime soon.