Except the situations in NK and Iraq were not the same.
Well, the irony remains. And in NK doesn't it make sense to get all the neighbors involved in the talks? They have quite a stake in containing NK's nuclear ambitions. I think my point was that many of the critics of the multilateral-NK/unilateral-Iraq positions simply wanted to give the Bush Administration a hard time regardless of the merits of the case.
Since Bush had such a pigheaded attitude toward invading Iraq no matter what (which we saw now was a huge waste with no WMDs), I'd rather have others around since I don't trust whoever he'd send to bilateral talks there. I don't really care if NK talks are multi- or bi-lateral, and I probably wouldn't care in Iraq either if someone as stubborn as Bush wasn't in charge, but it's not that hypocritical.