Have you ever cheated on a significant other? / Is cheating always wrong?

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Options 3 and 4.  I would urge you not to do that, Hagrid.  Imagine how you would feel if your SO cheated on you, too - not just in general.  Be honest if the relationship isn't as good as you wanted it to.

(I do believe that victims of abuse have a good reason, though.)

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Options 3 and 4.  I would urge you not to do that, Hagrid.  Imagine how you would feel if your SO cheated on you, too - not just in general.  Be honest if the relationship isn't as good as you wanted it to.

(I do believe that victims of abuse have a good reason, though.)

FTR, I am not considering cheating. I am interested in gauging whether this is a common thing and deciding if my dad is a complete SOB or just a bit of one.

Oh, I misread the OP - sorry.  But I don't think we determine if something is right or wrong based on how often it occurs.  I also don't think there's much you can do about your father's cheating, unfortunately.  That has to be worked out between him and your mom.  I really hope things turn out best for you and your family, though.

I'm also going to call BS on Brown Line's claim unless he has something to back it up...

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Options 3 and 4.  I would urge you not to do that, Hagrid.  Imagine how you would feel if your SO cheated on you, too - not just in general.  Be honest if the relationship isn't as good as you wanted it to.

(I do believe that victims of abuse have a good reason, though.)

FTR, I am not considering cheating. I am interested in gauging whether this is a common thing and deciding if my dad is a complete SOB or just a bit of one.

I'm also going to call BS on Brown Line's claim unless he has something to back it up...

It's absolutely true, and I base it off personal experience.  I have no doubt.  It's probably upwards of 70% of men, especially those in their 20's.

This isn't how it works.  But even if that were true, it doesn't excuse the behavior.

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If you're in an abusive relationship you should leave, not cheat.

Speaking as someone who's known multiple people in abusive relationships (including one who ended up marrying the bastard after knowing him for less than two months), it's really not as easy as it sounds.