This active distrust and dislike of atheists that's being discussed is sort of culturally alien to me. I obviously don't live in nearly as much of a resolutely secular bubble as Dule does, but New England is still one of the less-religious parts of the country at this point and I associate nosy overconcern with other people's irreligiosity mostly with the elderly and with transplants from the Midwest or South.
I grew up just outside Worcester, Mass. It's quite secular. But at school I did come across small number of religious students, mostly catholics.
I'm Catholic myself. I'm not very familiar with Worcester in particular, but the Pioneer Valley, where I live, is very much a "mostly secular, but there are definitely still religious people around" kind of place. Lots of Buddhists these days--and not just white converts, there are Southeast Asian immigrant and refugee populations too.