China has greater influence on NK though, and wants peace for not only the reasons above but because NK serves as a buffer against the much more democratic South Korea. They don't want their people getting "ideas" from a neighboring country.
Uh, what? Those people are already filled with the "ideas" you refer to. It's just that the government will not allow them to be expressed. Today's China is still a vile dictatorship, but it certainly is not an Orwellian totalitarian nightmare either.
True - the ideas have certainly gotten there, but they still like having the buffer. Having a direct democratic neighbor that is prosperous encourages dissent and escape. Not a good thing for an authoritarian state. And again, yes, that already happens to some extent, but it would probably be greater if SK shared the border with China instead of NK.