I'd still say Wyoming. Salt Lake City has a larger and more visible gay community than anywhere in either state, but the history of the LDS Church on gay rights is far, far from affirming. Wyoming is overall much more secular.
*Plus if we're being honest and throw in lesbians, then it's gotta be Wyoming!
Wyoming is still one of the more Mormon states, and has no shortage of Evangelicals either. The association of both groups with movement conservatism over the past half century has greatly influenced the culture of such places beyond those affiliated with them or even those affiliated with religion at all, and the famed tradition of Mountain West civil libertarianism is generally considered to include as many Ruby Ridge types as Frank Church admirers, if not more.