Would you be willing to date someone who’s bisexual?

[Dr. MB]

Would you be willing to date someone who is bisexual?

[Big Abraham]

My last ex said she was bi and that she kissed a girl once.

[Former President tack50]

Yeah sure, why not. I can't really see any reason why I wouldn't

[dead0man]

Most women below a certain age like to think they are bisexual, so yeah, of course, unless I want to limit myself to (mostly) uncool prudes.




<of course I'm married, so this is all moot for me....my wife (actually both my wives) claim to be bisexuals>

[100% pro-life no matter what]

No, at least not someone who had had homosexual sex and hadn't repented of it to follow Jesus.  I think as a personal preference, I wouldn't really want to date an ex-lesbian, though.  I've done a couple Instagram story polls on this (I've probably asked close to 100 polls on dating over the past several months):

31% would date someone who was bisexual (almost exclusively non-evangelicals who I know from college)

29% would date someone who identified as a "former homosexual" (this one was actually a mix of evangelicals and non-evangelicals, as some evangelicals said they would be willing if the other person completely repented of it and followed Jesus)

I don't actually know a single non-heterosexual person in real life, though (apart from maybe people I went to college with but haven't talked to in many years).

[Okay, maybe Mike Johnson is a competent parliamentarian.]

I'm actively unsettled when straight people are attracted to me, so yes, I would.

[Non Swing Voter]

LOL this thread is going to be a huge trigger for blue avatars.  I approve.

[TheReckoning]

No, at least not someone who had had homosexual sex and hadn't repented of it to follow Jesus.  I think as a personal preference, I wouldn't really want to date an ex-lesbian, though.  I've done a couple Instagram story polls on this (I've probably asked close to 100 polls on dating over the past several months):

31% would date someone who was bisexual (almost exclusively non-evangelicals who I know from college)

29% would date someone who identified as a "former homosexual" (this one was actually a mix of evangelicals and non-evangelicals, as some evangelicals said they would be willing if the other person completely repented of it and followed Jesus)

I don't actually know a single non-heterosexual person in real life, though (apart from maybe people I went to college with but haven't talked to in many years).

Do you hold the same standard to people who’ve had premarital sex? What about your evangelical friends?

[President of the great nation of 🏳️‍⚧️]

Yes. In fact, considering I'm trans, I don't know if I'm allowed to date people who aren't bisexual (at least, cisgender people who aren't bisexual). Between the fact that nobody will ever see me as a woman and my own gripe about wanting my partner to at least pretend to see me as a woman, dating a bi woman seems to be the easiest pathway, and even then I'd still be cartoonishly paranoid that she sees me as a man because I mean, come on, who wouldn't see me as a man?

[Non Swing Voter]

Yes. In fact, considering I'm trans, I don't know if I'm allowed to date people who aren't bisexual (at least, cisgender people who aren't bisexual). Between the fact that nobody will ever see me as a woman and my own gripe about wanting my partner to at least pretend to see me as a woman, dating a bi woman seems to be the easiest pathway, and even then I'd still be cartoonishly paranoid that she sees me as a man because I mean, come on, who wouldn't see me as a man?

what do you base this on?  a few nasty homophobic blue avatars?  I hope not.

[President of the great nation of 🏳️‍⚧️]

Between the fact that nobody will ever see me as a woman

what do you base this on?  a few nasty homophobic blue avatars?  I hope not.

No, I base it on reality. I look in the mirror and I don't see a woman, and if I can't see myself as a woman, then nobody can. It doesn't help that people have called me "sir" many times, despite having (visible) breasts.

[100% pro-life no matter what]

No, at least not someone who had had homosexual sex and hadn't repented of it to follow Jesus.  I think as a personal preference, I wouldn't really want to date an ex-lesbian, though.  I've done a couple Instagram story polls on this (I've probably asked close to 100 polls on dating over the past several months):

31% would date someone who was bisexual (almost exclusively non-evangelicals who I know from college)

29% would date someone who identified as a "former homosexual" (this one was actually a mix of evangelicals and non-evangelicals, as some evangelicals said they would be willing if the other person completely repented of it and followed Jesus)

I don't actually know a single non-heterosexual person in real life, though (apart from maybe people I went to college with but haven't talked to in many years).

Do you hold the same standard to people who’ve had premarital sex? What about your evangelical friends?

I would personally prefer to ideally date a virgin, but I'd be more likely to date someone who had premarital heterosexual sex, repented of that, and WANTED to wait until marriage with me (not just accepted it because I insisted).  As for why my answers are different, that's just a personal preference.  Still, my ideal woman would be a virgin on our Wedding Day.

[Anna Komnene]

Of course. What would a relationship be without shipping all of our favorite characters every which way?

[Frodo]

I suspect many of those (usually straight cisgender men) voting 'yes' to dating bisexual women have hopes and visions of ménage à trois on their minds.  

[Kahane's Grave Is A Gender-Neutral Bathroom]

Lol ExtremeRepublican thinks he doesn't know any gay/bi people. That's literally like 5-10% of the population

[afleitch]

My husband had a girlfriend for five years. He wouldn't consider himself bisexual, but he has had much more varied experiences than I have. I don't see why that should be a problem for anyone.

[H.E. VOLODYMYR ZELENKSYY]

I already have (gay, 20-something, normal).

[Donerail]

Yes, already have (voted option 2). She has not repented of it to follow Jesus either.

[THG]

I actually didn’t know any non-heterosexual people until I went to university. And I’m pretty similar to ER in terms of beliefs and somewhat in terms of upbringing.

However, I’m almost certain that at-least a few people in my high school were non-heterosexuals and that I never found out.

[Crumpets]

Seeing as most of the people to express any sort of interest in me have been bisexual, the most recent person I kissed is bisexual, and the person I'd put at the top of my "people I'm most likely to date who I already know" list is bisexual, yes. I imagine there's a higher chance I'd end up marrying someone who's bisexual than not.

[Mr. Smith]

Sure, heck, as long as she's not jealous and we're committed, it'd make for good movie nights. We can laugh at each other's bad attempts to check out others too.

[Ferguson97]

Of course, why would that matter?