For full disclosure, I actually have several different monikers meant to serve different functions in navigating my own extremely unstable and contested relationship with my gender, and I do get a little upset when one is used in a social setting in which I prefer to use another. Thus I definitely wasn't attempting to claim in my previous post in this thread that the LGBT community etiquette around this subject is wrong somehow, only that in the specific context of journalism I can see why the imperative to make it as clear as possible to the general public who and what is being discussed would be a countervailing consideration.
IMO you articulated that rather well earlier. Now that being said, if your Atlas post went viral on Twitter for some strange reason, I'm sure a potchfork and torch mob would find some way to infer bigotry from it. SJWs are why we can't have nice things.