Y'all are forgetting someone
Be a living breathing being, have sex. It should be up to you what eukaryote celled creature you want to have sex with. That is reasonable. God is not unreasonable. People have been unreasonable toward people I call zoos. People want to war against everything, even against people who want to walk or run around nude. We need to consider who we have sex with as if it was our own flesh. God knows who thinks otherwise. He is who people need to fear. It is not our place to give others fear.