Gay men are less important than WY is as a state for the election ...
Gay men are 5% of the Democratic coalition and - unlike almost every other minority group - are geographically one of the most optimally-distributed voting blocs in the country. We also enjoy a guaranteed existence: unlike everybody else, if you kill us all off, we'll just be back next generation!
If you take the exit poll figures at face value (which I do think overestimate D support, but alas) and adjust gay male support to 50/50,
Clinton would have lost Minnesota, New Hampshire, Nevada and Maine.