I listened to Loveless exactly one time and it just gave me a headache. And I usually like things under the label of "noise music". So I guess I don't "get it".
Tried listening to it for three weeks, only got headaches afterwards. I was trying too hard to listen to everything at once and got overwhelmed by all the noise. After about those three weeks it finally "clicked" for me, and now I absolutely adore the album. I think it's cause I finally figured out which parts to focus on, and just let the rest blend into the background "blanket" of sound. Could be full of s*** though, it's definitely not for everyone.