Could you please clarify that using more simple language? What do you mean by "moral ambiguity" and what have you actually proposed to help these people?
I'm talking about policy like EITC expansion that many pious conservatives won't put through because apparently they prefer to pay Welfare and then complain. Most Republicans couldn't care less about the state of inner-city schools and they don't push vouchers or charter schools. They also tolerate the educational cartel-power wielded by wealthy suburbs. Republicans generally scoff at Paul's proposal for aiming tax cuts at poor localities rather than upper-income tax brackets.
Civility towards Democrats, who often make the problem worse, does not make many Republicans respectable or tolerable. You simply refuse to get your hands dirty.