My favored strategy for the Democrats was to pass laws ending gerrymandering that get triggered once TX, OH, NC, etc. end gerrymandering. That way you still keep the moral high ground without unilaterally disarming. Of course, Democrats would rather unilaterally disarm since it is what they do best.
I agree. I've always been against unilateral disarmament on this issue. I'd prefer states adopt the California model for redistricting. It prevents either side from gerrymandering and also disregards incumbency.
NC looks like it might be changing on account of the state courts. Ohio could be changed through ballot initiative, but reform efforts seem to have given up and it seems doubtful the half-measure will have any meaningful changes. I'm guessing Dems get the Cincinnati seat, but that might be it.