so I only go when I genuinely feel compelled to do so; usually about everyother Sunday, or so.
And doesn't the Catholic Church consider that a sin?
I think its funny that you think that anyone who is actually a real Catholic must slavishly commit their minds to every little thing that the Church says. Doubly ironic, since the RCC itself doesn't even say that. The rules are there as guidelines. Unless they are absolute essentials to the faith, excepts are made. Since the RCC has canonized people like St. Francis, who existed very much outside the established disciplines of the main Church body, I don't think they see it as much on a issue.