Some of you know that my parents' marriage has fallen apart over the last year and that this process was exacerbated by extra-martial activities on the part of my dad. If you didn't know, now you do.
![Tongue](https://talkelections.org/FORUM/Smileys/classic/tongue.gif)
I accept it even though I don't particularly like it, because I realize I will never be in his shoes and can't know why he did what he did or what truly led him to do it. I believe it's more of a symptom of the failing marriage than the cause, but my mom is certainly not interested in approaching the situation with any kind of open mind.
So reflecting on this experience as well as my own relationship, I've been thinking a lot about cheating. I've been trying to put myself in the shoes of both the cheater and the cheated on, and I think that sometimes it could be more morally grey than it's often made out to be in Western society. Just curious what people's thoughts and experiences are on the matter.
I realize this might be an instance of hiding behind the poll, and that's fine.
As for the definition of cheating, I left it vague on purpose because I expect people would reasonably be able to determine when their behaviour has crossed a certain line (and I respect that the line may be different for different people/relationships).