The Ninth Amendment has always struck me as a one the most absurd and meaningless piece of constitutional text ever written. The point of a constitution is enumerating rights; if the people have other rights that those enumerated in the constitution, then who is to guess what these rights are?
And yeah, regardless of how you feel about abortion, Roe v. Wade was an awful decision from the strictly legal standpoint.
I would imagine that it was written because the Framers knew that if the United States succeeded as a national experiment and was still around hundreds of years later, the world would likely be a very different place from the one in which they lived. That is, the Constitution doesn't limit Americans' rights to those enumerated because the Framers did not want to hold 21st century people hostage to the wills and ideas of 18th century men - and it was very wise and prescient of them not to.