Here's where the parallels with mainstream Western culture the RCC cease
Well, not really. Social control comes in different forms and there's absolutely no doubt that victims of abuse (sexual and otherwise) in thoroughly mainstream Western settings have been systematically silenced over the decades (just look up
any care home scandal; there are plenty to choose from). Fundamentally, this sort of thing is awful, but we don't exactly occupy any kind of moral high ground on this issue. Anyone who thinks otherwise is delusional.