Love does not mean always agreeing with everything someone does
This is, of course, absolutely and utterly true.
It is also a statement that does not
entirely gel with the rest of what you seem to be advocating in this thread. Because, you see, whatever
this is...
...it is not 'love'.
Perhaps... perhaps... it could be argued that dressing it up as such is... perhaps ever so slightly... sick? I don't know, perhaps that word is a bit emotive and not conductive to productive discourse (or whatever). It would also miss the point. Inappropriate, maybe, is more fitting. So let's run with it, shall we? Inappropriate.
Fundamentally, you can feel what you want to feel and think what you want to think. But it's wrong (because it's pompous and pomposity is wrong) to dress up every single thought and feeling as if it were the product of noble intention and Christian compassion.