When I see some of the older gay guys who graduated before me post about gay stuff on Facebook, it absolutely sickens me how shallow and pathetic the gay "community" is. It makes me ashamed to be gay. I want no part in a culture that values belittling and bullying others to prop one's self up, accumulating material possessions/monetary wealth, constantly partying/drinking/doing drugs/having promiscuous sex, and judges others based on looks. It goes against absolutely everything I believe in and stand for.
I have the same problem, especially with more flamboyant guys, the ones I met (and there are very few who do not meet that description) are always complaining about how they're not having sex, they always judge others all the time, they complain/bitch about the smallest things, they overreact about everything, they're so dramatic when someone criticizes them for being rude, and it's just awful to me, you know? These guys are representing everyone in the community, and they just perpetuate the stereotype.