How is it even legal to ask for sperm from a particular racial group? That's clearly discrimination.
Would you rather they spin a Wheel o' Random Sperm and the mother gets what they get?
Perhaps it can be classified as a sort of discrimination but I think it should probably be OK for a woman who is allowing a such a substance into her body from an unknown source to create her own new human to have as many options as possible, whether it's knowing the donors, race, eye color or favorite Simpsons character. This is obviously a monumental and personal life decision and I don't see how you not allow such a choice.
but yea, this woman seems like a dummy.