I think this has taken an interesting turn. The problem is that appeals to ‘personal autonomy’ (which as a classical liberal I strongly support; the idea that it’s some exclusive quasi-libertarian thing makes me think you’ve all spent too much time on the internets
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) is what has driven the move towards ‘permissiveness’, not the reappraisal of sexual acts within a moral framework. By permissiveness I mean a move away from the patriarchal and heteronormative view of morality (which granted the heterosexual male free reign in sexual acts; being able to define what is morally ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ concerning them and also being able to roundly ignore them). What I
don’t mean by ‘permissiveness’ is over sexualisation. That has always manifested itself regardless of what moral and social norms are in place.
It is of no coincidence that the LGBT rights movement has manifested and sadly at times in the 20th Century, ebbed, with successive waves of feminism. Women have not attained the advances that they have on the basis of people determining they are ‘morally right’ as women, but on the basis of personal autonomy; in part being granted literal control over their own bodies with their own abilities as women being determined by their contributions rather than the limitations placed upon them a priori by men. Gays have not achieved the position in some parts of society that they currently hold because people have determined
at first that being gay and committing the sexual acts associated with it is either moral or amoral (because a close examination may lead the heterosexual to find it difficult to disassociate heterosexual sexual norms, potential revulsion of the scatological etc from the homosexual physical and emotional experience) but because of the fact that someone being gay doesn’t affect them or doesn’t threaten them. That comes first (and I know from personal experience with people’s reactions to me) and then any moral re-appraisal comes second. I cannot consider that ‘cowardly’ but merely a stage in acceptance.