Of course my opinion is subjective. You spent three paragraphs pointing out the obvious.
And I'm not quite a 90s kid - I was born in 1989, making me a bit too young to have caught music at its edgiest. And it's not like there isn't loud and fast Millie music - it's just incredibly stupid. Like Five Finger Death Punch.
i have found myself getting a lot more into grind core but even stuff like that is still largely dominated by people born in the '70s, at least in terms of the people heading the actual bands (trap them, modern life is war, etc.).
in any case nin was always looked down on as hot topic mall goth type stuff by most of the industrial scene even when they were comparatively better than now. i'm actually almost annoyed at typing this because its such a predictable opinion to go with. its fun to play contrarian but sometimes, well
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7kqYD1gkgZs