The only film of theirs I've seen is Juno
Pronoun cringe. (Unless Elliot is pretending Ellen is someone completely different, instead of an earlier phase of his life.)
Elliot said that he uses he/they pronouns so they can be used interchangeably.
Slightly less cringey. I'm fine with using they/them/their in the singular when the gender is unknown but not as a non-binary singular gender. In that circumstance I personally prefer ey/em/eir. Still, I'm not the grammar Czar.
Eh, it's becoming more common. I'm pretty sure it's even been recognized by Webster's and/or the OED?
Singular "they" has been attested in English for centuries (it appears in Austen, although I forget which novel) but it was seen as a colloquialism until recently. Pre-C20 nonbinary people like
this Quaker theologian often insisted on just having their names used in the situations in which a pronoun normally would be.