Buy birth control? 18 (Because you shouldn't be having sex until...)
I'm going to be a jerk and call you out on this a little.
By and large, it's probably dumb to have sex before 18. I wouldn't say in every situation - I know very intelligent sexually active people under 18 who realize that there is a small chance of accidental pregnancy (very small), but are willing to take that risk.
But limiting birth control to 18+ is an horrible idea. Do you really want the teenage pregnancy rate to skyrocket? Teenagers don't have sex because condoms are available. What are we going to do, prosecute people for handing out condoms to 17-year-olds? Sorry, but that's ridiculous to me.
Remember, the topic is 'how old "should" you be' . . . which means the reasonable person "should" be obeying the rules. Now if in a state where the right to consensual sex is 16, then the brith control purchase age should be . . . 16. No teenagers "should" be having sex. I didn't say my choices were realistic with the irresponsible youths that exist in society.