The question "Would you rather go to a party or stay home and read a good book" is a very popular personality question, but very flawed. I get these "do you fly by the seat of your pants or do you have a plan?" questions, but the first one just doesn't work.
I'd much rather go to a football party than stay home and read a book. However, I would rather stay at home and read a book than go to a nerd party. An acquaintance of mine now and again likes to throw trendy nerd parties - one was a Harry Potter party back about 2010, I think. Man, did I weasel out of that one. He pestered me for days because I think he was trying to get like 50 people there. However, I've been to a couple of his Super Bowl parties, and it's a totally, whole different crowd.
Strange, I'm basically the exact opposite. I"m more at home with nerds than sports fans.