Honor culture, derived from the culture of the Scottish Highlands where the honor of oneself and one's clan were of paramount importance, was the main reason. You can still see echoes of this today even though it isn't as overt.
If we're making the assumption that the South's Culture of Honor is a strictly colonial import (which is not 100% the case, I believe) then this explanation misses a really big part of the story in that it doesn't account for the traditions and culture of the Southern planter aristocracy, who were mostly from the South of England or France instead of the Scottish or Welsh Highlands. The planter class was much more influenced by feudal ideas of chivalry and self-restraint than the clan dynamics of the Scots-Irish.
What you're describing is the "Hatfield vs McCoy" type drama that defined rural upland culture from Oklahoma to New York (i.e., not a Southern cultural artifact at all.) The Culture of Honor that defined the Southern planter class is of an entirely different typology, even if our contemporary understanding of the region glosses over this important distinction.