I feel like people who say that nothing happens in soccer are implying that the only thing that matters in a sports game is the goals.
I get what you're trying to say, a lot of the important plays in soccer aren't anywhere near the goal and are just setting up opportunities to score*, but the score is the only thing that matters when all is said and done.
Not just soccer, though. American football has a lot of excitement on the plays, and the process of getting the touchdown, not just the touchdown itself. Yes, score is all that matters when you are looking at the game on a spreadsheet; but appreciation of a sport involves much more than the points you score, and that goes for all the sports, not just soccer/hockey.