Also if his mother is reading this a big thanks to her, this is like the worst possible scenario for any parent and I can't imagine what it's like to go through, and taking time to inform some obscure internet forum even months later is never going to be a priority, especially with the time to find this place. I wonder if even my mother would come here to inform this place if this happened to me and if she'd be even aware. Thank you very much for reaching out as you did.
Yes, this is Mr. Morden's mother, and I am so touched by all the heartwarming tributes on this site. I did not work hard at finding the website (though navigating is another story!). Mr. Morden's best friend is an occasional poster, and he thought I might be interested in reading some of Morden's posts through the years. When I saw that there was such speculation as to why he had dropped off the site, I thought it was important to clarify the situation. Thank you all for embracing my son who left us at age 45.