Also OP: "religions are mostly about being a better person" is categorically
not true with regard to the largest, most globally dominant ones (ie. the Abrahamic ones - Christianity, Islam, and Judaism - which is not very large but certainly not irrelevant, especially when considering the roots of the two much larger Abrahamic religions...).
These religions are all based on human beings individually and collectively submitting themselves fully to God - specifically, the God of Abraham. "Being a better person" is (supposed to be) a positive consequence of that, but it's not the core of those religions, and anyone who knows anything about them and is being honest with you will tell you that - whether they are followers of said religions or not.
I hope this helps.