Even women are more likely to blame other women for their husbands infidelity (Cardiff Met had a study on this in the age of online affairs looking at Facebook messages).
Hence the enduring country music tradition of female artists establishing their bravado by promising to shake down anyone who fools around with their man:
Between this and "The Pill", the sociological perspectives of Loretta Lynn are quite fascinating. Of course, Parton's immortal "Jolene" is a beautiful subversion of the trope that displays a piercing vulnerability.