But the Dems used reconciliation just to get it passed out of the senate. They don't like it when their tricks are/will be used against them.
No. They used reconciliation to change the funding method of the original bill which passed the Senate with 60 votes and went through the House. They could not have gotten the bill through by reconciliation and full repeal wouldnt get through reconiciliation either.
But the mandate is a tax, so that can be dealt with as a budgetary matter and use reconciliation if necessary.