Article written about Santorum(Phil I wouldn't click on this thread).

[mgrossbe]

Santorum comments here and tim hardaways bigoted comments the other day reminded me of this oped ariticle i wrote in college. where after having the second question happen to me i posed to our readers two questions what do if

1. If you child turned out to be homosexual?
2. What would you do if you were hit on my a memeber of the same sex?

I expected some very pro-gay and anti-gay comments which i got of course, but what was interesting was a few people said that by thinking about it this way helped to be it in a different perspective.  I would post the whole aritcle but our college had not put the paper online at that point so i only have a hard copy. But this quote always struck me as relevent.

"so often I look at the gays as a some ambigous group that can be easily hated because they were different than me but, when i look at them as individuals its is much harder to dispise them who knows what truely motivates their actions..." Jan S.

Ulimtatly my point is that it is easy to see that i can easily see santorum points espcially if you fervently believe in the bible but look at the people not the group and think about them as if you were them, if you believe you would not act on your orientation more power to you i just do not think it is possible. you don't have to repsond to those questions here i would just pose that you think about it sometime.

PS.

I politly said to him that i was their with my then girlfriend now wife and we both kinda laughed and i had to ask whether i seemed gay he said no just thought i might be don't really know how to take that but whatever.